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Gay closet doors open wide, research finds |
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| Gay closet doors open wide, research finds |
by Deb Price -
The Detroit News
California researcher Gary Gates has been hearing things lately:
Lots of closet doors opening like never before -- and in places where most
Gay folks five years ago were too wary of government census takers to
acknowledge being in a same-sex relationship.
"The closet door is really opening. That's especially true in the
Midwest," says Gates, author of a fascinating study based on the newly
released 2005 American Community Survey -- a sort of mini-Census -- and
the National Survey of Family Growth, both conducted by the federal
government.
Overall, the number of same-sex couples identifying themselves to the
government soared 30 percent in five short years -- to 776,943. To put
that in perspective, the U.S. population grew 6 percent in that period.
The biggest jumps in self-reporting by Gay couples were largely in
America's heartland: Take for example, Wisconsin, which surged 81 percent
in the number of same-sex couples living together; Ohio 62 percent; and
Michigan 48 percent.
While more Gay folks may be settling down into committed relationships,
the biggest factor driving the increases, Gates bets, is that more Gay
couples are comfortably out.
And the survey results suggest that anti-Gay marriage drives are having a
wonderful unintended consequence: They're emboldening more of us to stand
up and be counted. Six of the eight states with an anti-Gay marriage
initiative on this year's ballot -- Arizona, Colorado, South Carolina,
Tennessee, Virginia and Wisconsin -- saw rate jumps higher than the 30
percent national average.
"Do some people get afraid and go back into the closet? Sure," says Gates
of the Williams Institute. "But that is offset substantially by people who
get angry and say, 'Hey, you are talking about me!'."
Because the Family Growth survey found that 4.1 percent of adults identify
as Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual, Gates estimates that those of us who're Gay
Americans now number 8.8 million. (To find out more about a place's Gay
population, read Gates' study by Googling the Williams Institute.)
Meanwhile, a new New York Times poll underscores that as more Gay people
feel comfortable enough to come out, society grows more accepting -- and
vice versa.
The Times asked whether "being homosexual is something people choose to
be, or ... something they cannot change?"
For the first time in the 13 years the Times has asked, the "cannot
change" view rose above 50 percent: By 53-34 percent, Americans say being
Gay can't be changed, compared with 43-44 percent in 1993.
The Times also asked whether "you think homosexual relations between
adults are morally wrong ... OK ... or don't you care much either way?"
Those saying "morally wrong" is down to 37 percent from 55 percent in
1993. The combined "OK" and "don't care" has leaped to 61 percent from 42
percent 13 years ago.
Our nation is progressing toward a healthy understanding that being Gay is
like lefthandedness--not a choice, not wrong, just a reality for millions.
And Gates is working to see whether being in a coupled relationship is as
positive for Gays and as for married heterosexuals in terms of such things
as lower rates of depression: "Preliminarily, we are finding that Gay
people get similar positive benefits."
And in record numbers, we're proudly introducing ourselves to Uncle Sam.
Reach Deb Price at (202) 662-8736 or dprice@detnews.com.
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