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posted Friday, February 10, 2012 - Volume 40 Issue 06
CNN contributor sticks his tongue in the fire
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CNN contributor sticks his tongue in the fire

by David Webb - Courtesy of The Rare Reporter

It's about time for the highfliers of the world to start giving things a little more thought before they open their mouths and let everyone know about the ugliness festering in their minds.

The latest big voice to stick his tongue in the fire is CNN contributor Roland Martin, who unfortunately tweeted what was on his mind while watching soccer star David Beckham's Super Bowl underwear commercial. Martin tweeted that if a 'dude' at a Super Bowl party gets 'hyped' about the underwear ad someone should 'smack the ish out of him.'

The inference in that statement is pretty clear: if a guy reveals he likes guys by showing appreciation for the nearly naked, muscular Beckham featured in the ad, then someone should punish him - with violence.

It's unclear why Martin's mind would react in such a fashion to the commercial, but it should come as no surprise to the commentator or any other high-profile person that perceived anti-Gay remarks will result in an immediate, unpleasant reaction from GLAAD, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. And that's exactly what has happened in the case of Martin, whom the media monitoring organization has accused of habitual verbal Gay bashing.

Earlier the same day, Martin reportedly posted on his Facebook page that someone featured at the game in a 'head-to-toe pink suit' needed a 'visit from teamwhipdatass.' Everything considered, it clearly was not one of Martin's better days image-wise.

For his part, Martin immediately began trying to explain away his statements as harmless and not at all what the people from GLAAD perceived it to be upon hearing they wanted CNN to fire him. He claimed it was intended as a 'crack' against soccer fans and not intended to be homophobic at all.

After that failed to convince anyone that he didn't really say what everyone knows full well he did say, Martin decided the following day to apologize, saying he could 'certainly understand how someone could come to a different conclusion than the one' he meant.

In his own defense, Martin noted that he had spoken out on national television in the past against bullying by urging parents and schools to take an 'active role in ending this epidemic that afflicts kids nationwide, Gay or not.'

GLAAD accepted Martin's apology as a 'start,' but it suggested that the commentator should take the extra step of meeting with the organization's leaders and using his big voice in the future to speak out against homophobic violence as reparation for his offensive and potentially harmful remarks.

That's not a bad idea at all because violence can be incited in impressionable people - especially the young - who view powerful people's hateful words as justification for violence. Hate crime researchers have long warned that politicians, clergy people and celebrities carry a great responsibility in terms of how their rhetoric might influence others.

In Martin's case it seems odd that someone who is an African-American television news personality and familiar with the issues of discrimination and bias-related violence would wind up being chided for perceived anti-Gay rhetoric, but that is reflective of the insidiousness of bias. Nasty thoughts sometimes lurk in nice people's minds, surfacing only during extraordinary moments.

Often, the expression of those thoughts probably comes as big of a surprise to the deliverer as it does the audience, and the result can be harrowing. That in itself is a good reason for everyone to realize that bias against law-abiding groups is harmful to society, no matter whether it is race, religion, sex, age or whatever, and a constant vigilance to fight against it in one's own head should be undertaken if it resides there.

That's likely a bigger problem for people who harbor anti-Gay bias because of the LGBT community's relative youth in terms of a legitimate society of people. Anti-Gay bias was considered not only acceptable, but preferable for too long for some people to change their thoughts on the subject swiftly.

In regard to Gay rights, some people changed their minds long before the laws changed, but for other people the process has been delayed long after the repeal of the sodomy law and the passage of other affirmative measures. Those people continue to struggle to balance their thoughts with their speech.

Usually, people accustomed to speaking in public can keep their inappropriate thoughts in check when they are talking or writing, but social media forums such as Twitter and Facebook are presenting new hazards in communication. The immediacy of the communication and its worldwide reach can create big headaches for people, as Martin has learned.

Every purposeless, derogatory statement issued about another person or group has the potential of reaching and offending someone.

Because of that, it might be a good idea for everyone to take a lesson from Martin's faux pas and watch carefully what they post on the social media. Once it is out there, it's spreading furiously and it's not so easy to take back.

David Webb is a veteran journalist who has covered LGBT issues for three decades. E-mail him at davidwaynewebb@hotmail.com.

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