Reprinted with permission from Stonewall News Northwest
Frank Gaimari doesn’t just tell stories, he brings them to life. At 64, this Seattle-based writer and storyteller has turned a lifetime of experiences into narratives that entertain, inspire, and connect with people on a real, personal level. After a 36-year career in the federal government, Gaimari has fully embraced his love for writing, and the results are nothing short of amazing.
His latest book, Conversations with Legends: The Interview Articles, is a celebration of curiosity, connection, and compassion. This collection of 24-in-depth interviews goes beyond the surface of fame, giving readers an honest, behind-the-scenes look at the lives of some of the most interesting people in entertainment. From the vibrant Kate Pierson of The B-52s and the heartfelt David Archuleta to the bold Margaret Cho and the visionary filmmaker Todd Stephens, Gaimari’s interviews aren’t just Q&As, they’re meaningful conversations full of wit, wisdom, and real emotion.
Through his thoughtful questions and engaging style, Gaimari doesn’t just interview his subjects, he brings readers into their world and uncovers the stories that shaped them. (And yes, I’m honored to be one of the voices featured in his book.) Whether it’s the creative mind of Craig Chester or the artistic talent of Richard Vyse, Gaimari’s ability to connect with people on a genuine level makes each interview unforgettable. Conversations with Legends isn’t just a book, it’s an invitation to explore creativity, fame, and the shared experiences that connect us all.
But Gaimari’s talent for storytelling doesn’t stop with books. He’s also a skilled screenwriter with a knack for bringing history and relationships to life. His screenplay Vincent and Paul: Unspoken Brotherhood — a dramatized look at the complicated friendship between Vincent van Gogh and Paul Gauguin — has earned high praise. Another screenplay, La Famiglia, stood out in the prestigious Nicholl Fellowship contest, placing in the top 15% in 2019. These achievements highlight Gaimari’s unique gift for creating stories that truly resonate with people.
Curious to learn more about the man behind these stories, I had the chance to talk with Gaimari about the inspiration, challenges, and insights that drive his incredible work.
Lyndal Simpson: What inspired you to write Conversations with Legends?
Frank Gaimari: Conversations with Legends was born out of a moment that changed everything — a moment that made it necessary to pause, reflect, and refocus.
Let me explain. Just recently, I was diagnosed with leukemia. The doctors are hopeful, and my prognosis is good, but hearing those words — “You have cancer” — stopped me in my tracks. It’s the kind of moment that forces you to take stock of your life. I found myself asking questions I’d never really faced before: What truly matters? What have I done with my time? What will I leave behind?
The answer came to me almost instantly: my interviews. These conversations with some of the most fascinating, creative, and inspiring people are what I’m most proud of. I wanted to bring them together, not just for myself but for anyone who might find meaning in them. Conversations with Legends became my way of holding onto what matters most and making sure these voices and their stories are never forgotten.
A diagnosis like this changes everything. It strips life down to what’s essential. It forces you to focus on what gives you purpose and keeps you going. For me, this book became that purpose. It gave me something to hold onto, something to look forward to — something bigger than the recurring tests, doctors' appointments, and the uncertainty. It reminded me of the beauty of connection, the power of storytelling, and the importance of leaving something behind that matters.
LS: How did you choose the 24 celebrities featured in the book?
FG: When it came to choosing the 24 celebrities for the book, I simply picked people I was genuinely curious about — people whose stories I thought would interest me and, hopefully, the readers as well. My thinking is, if I find someone fascinating or their journey inspiring, chances are others will too. That’s always been my approach: follow my own curiosity and let that guide my interviews.
I feel fortunate: About eight out of ten times, the people I reach out to are open to talking. I’m not sure if it’s because of my previous work or just the way I approach them, but I’m always grateful when someone says yes. It means a lot to have them share their time and experiences, and I think a relaxed, genuine approach helps set the tone for a good conversation.
LS: Was there a particular interview that stood out to you as especially memorable?
FG: While no single interview stood out above the rest, what truly left an impression on me was how genuinely kind and grounded these celebrities were. Going into these conversations, you never really know what to expect, but time and again, I was pleasantly surprised by their warmth, sincerity, and approachability. There was only one instance in which someone came across as a bit distant, but that was the exception.
What made these interviews so memorable wasn’t just the stories they shared but the authenticity behind them. Getting to know the real, unfiltered people behind the public personas was both refreshing and deeply rewarding.
LS: Your screenplay, Vincent and Paul: Unspoken Brotherhood, has received significant recognition. How does your screenwriting process differ from writing a book?
FG: Writing a book like Conversations with Legends is a much more interactive process, because I get to engage directly with people. The interviews are conversations, full of energy and connection, which makes the process feel dynamic and collaborative. Screenwriting, on the other hand, is a solitary experience — just me and the computer, crafting the story on my own. While they’re very different approaches, I enjoy both mediums. Each offers its own unique challenges and rewards, and I find fulfillment in both.
LS: What advice would you give to aspiring writers who want to explore both screenwriting and book writing?
FG: My biggest advice is to never tell yourself, “I can’t do this.” If writing is your dream, commit to making it happen. The most important step is simply starting — get something, anything, down on the page. It doesn’t have to be perfect; everything you create can be refined or edited later. The key is to overcome the fear of imperfection and take that first step.
Discipline is just as important as inspiration. Sometimes, you must push yourself to keep moving forward. Writing isn’t always easy, but the satisfaction of seeing your ideas come to life is worth the effort. Believe in your ability to grow, and don’t let self-doubt hold you back. Dreams only become reality when you act, so start writing and keep going.
LS: Do you have any upcoming projects or books in the works that you’re excited to share?
FG: Absolutely! After turning my screenplay Circus Animals into a novel and seeing the incredible response it received, I felt inspired to do the same for La Famiglia. It’s such a beautiful story, and I truly believe it deserves to be told in novel form.
I started working on it before my diagnosis, but when I received the news, I set it aside and focused on completing Conversations with Legends. Now that this book is complete, I’m ready to return to La Famiglia and bring it to life.
The story is about two Italian men who fall in love. It’s filled with heart, culture, and emotion. It’s a story that means so much to me, and I think it’s one that everyone needs to read. I can’t wait to share it with the world.
Frank Gaimari’s talent for connecting with people and bringing their stories to life is the cornerstone of his work. From his heartfelt interviews with celebrities to his award-winning screenplays, film reviews, and novels, he has a unique ability to captivate audiences with his thoughtful, authentic approach to storytelling. Conversations with Legends is a true celebration of human connection, offering readers a glimpse into the lives and experiences of some of the most fascinating figures in entertainment.
The book is now available on Amazon.com. Don’t miss the chance to experience it for yourself. Check out Gaimari’s website at www.FrankGaimari.com.
Lyndal Simpson is a multi-award-winning screenwriter, with two movies currently in development. She lives in Melbourne, Australia, with her husband and two teenage sons.
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